It was 2 weeks ago that I met a guy, We hit it off great at first. perfect personality, very laid back, Intelligent and conversation never ran dry, we could idly chit chat for hours and I loved it. it was one date and the 2 weeks after we had communicated on the phone. I was not sure why he stood away but for the most part I was ok fine. I did finally start to get impatient with him not being available, so I took the initiative to arrange a visit, and I rented some Movies and I made dinner. My room mate usually stays in his room all day playing on his laptop but that night he had to work his job. anyway, the guy came over and upon entering I noticed he had a Huge scale like bump on his lip, I wanted to be nice. I opted for the hug. I enjoyed much of our interaction and there is a strong connection, but it was revealed to me by him that it was something he could spread. I felt depressed as well and could not help but stare at it in conversation when he was not looking and I sat on the other side of the table when we chatted. I felt angry at the circumstance. seeing how it would get in the way for me, I decided to just be friends. My question to the forum....am I an Ass?