So I answer a question. Have no problem stating my side, saying it like I see it, and get crap for it. Settle down , you read to far into things.
Stress and fear are two different things, looks like you think they are the same. Do you think an athlete does not sense stress, even if they are on top of their game going for the title? Does an engineer not feel stress at the end of a time-line, even if it will be a great accomplishment in the end? I know this from personal experience. Was it fearful? No.
Really dont see why both of you want to jump someones back if their wants are not the same as yours. Just because I dont want children, does not mean its from fear. I like my free time. To do what I want, when I want. If anything its greed for my time. Children consume spare time, they should, if you intend to bring them up right. The amount of $ for college ect stresses out many people with kids. I hear about it at work. Want them to succeed ?- some type of post high-school education is needed, thats not free.
My use of the word 'chill' describes ISTP's need for time off by themselves to recharge. This is not a choice, its a need for most.
Most of ISTP's I know, even with good marriages, do not desire children. This does not mean they don't like children.
As far as over population, this is a cold, true fact that many are afraid to acknowledge. There are starving children, they need to be taken care of. The Earth is our mother and we need to take care of it to - the big picture.
So please, before you go 'labeling' people that you dont know based on a few words, open your mind a little more, they might look at things different than you, and you might not understand their point of view. For the record, I have accomplished a lot in my life, some of which others are fearful of trying. You dont know this, I and others around me do.
So hopefully you two will just leave this and think before putting others down again. Remember its easy to assume things without truly knowing someone.