Fair enough. I understand what you mean now. That said, I don't necessarily want to be liked as a byproduct of type. That's still a pretty big difference. I appreciate closer connections though.
I disagree that there could be that dramatic of an angle on her type. Lets say I've shifted my understanding of MBTI to just humbling myself towards people like Quenk (who helps author the official MBTI manuals btw) or seeing actual examples of types. It's not my system, so whatever.