You sound just like her, hah.
It's not that you have ideas, it's just that you have certain set
ideas and when I'm trying to reason something out, sometimes
I get shut down on because it seems like I don't respect her sense of things, I guess -- even though I DO, very much so, it's one reason I love her so much. I think it's usually when there's alot of emotion tied to the subject because she cares about me, but I'm honestly just trying to figure out the best option.
I don't mean any offense, I just don't understand not reasoning something out. I guess because I used to mostly talk with my dad about decisions and he was an ENTJ. My ESFJ mom was kinda like this, too.
And it's not just on big decisions, sometimes it's been about what jeans to buy. Then later she regrouped and realized it's probably better to just not be as assertive about that. But then she didn't want to make suggestions at all. It sucks that she's so sensitive, I just want to have a good time with her and think things out with her.