sensuous in bed. brush my hair, caress my leg, etc.
care for animals. i have a LOT of cats.
be a soft kisser. nothing sloppy or too hard.
like to have fun! i'm a bit impulsive and i don't like restraints.
give me space when i need it. and not have to fight you for it either. i like guys that have their own interests that they want to busy their selves in, so i don't have to feel selfish when i want to be alone, and so that we'll each have interesting things to share with one another. i like a guy with some passion of his own.
must enjoy silence. talk is cheap, baby. i don't want to hear your dull stories 24/7. can't we both just go out to eat, me with my magazine, you with your book, and still know that there is love in the air.
bad odors. i'm a bit of a hippie, myself... but i just cannot take foul odors.
guy's who put too much effort into their hair, clothes, etc. i like manly, men. natural looking men.
someone with no morals or questionable morals and values.
someone who isn't open minded or tolerant of differences between people.
"I don't know a perfect person.
I only know flawed people who are still worth loving."
~ Laughs at my jokes.
~ Sensual and is appreciative of my uber-sensual nature.
~ Respects my passions/obsessions. (e.g. They may hate opera but they may not continously hate on it)
~ Lets me be me (while grounding me at the same time)
~ Level-headed (One of us has to be)
*Once upon a time, I may have put "plays games" in the deal-breakers list but my INFJ, wonderful as they may be, has a tendency to do a bit of this. I've been tempted to walk away once or twice but we're deeply in love and I'm trying to partially accommodate this tendency while, at the same time, gently and gradually wean them of it. I think its part of the package, in a sense; I've yet to meet an INFJ that doesn't play games in the relationship department (at least in the beginning). I'm not saying they don't exist; I've just yet to meet them.