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    it's tea time! Walking Tourist's Avatar
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    deal breakers:
    control freak
    no sense of humor
    arrogant
    smoker
    dangerous driver
    liar

    deal makers:
    good sense of humor
    adventurous
    likes cats
    Last edited by Walking Tourist; 06-13-2010 at 09:11 PM. Reason: forgot liar as a deal breaker. Ooops, that's a biggie...
    I'm a little teapot, short and stout. Here is my handle and here is my spout. Every time I steam up, I give a shout. Just tip me over and pour me out.

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    veteran attention whore Jeffster's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    since every other type seems to be making these, we might as well have one too... plus, then the SPs won't feel tempted to post their lists elsewhere *nudges foolish heart*
    I didn't read the other topics. There's so many boring topic titles.

    what must a SO have and what can't they have?
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    sulking orangutang... totally!
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    must have/be:
    sensuous in bed. brush my hair, caress my leg, etc.
    care for animals. i have a LOT of cats.
    be a soft kisser. nothing sloppy or too hard.
    like to have fun! i'm a bit impulsive and i don't like restraints.
    give me space when i need it. and not have to fight you for it either. i like guys that have their own interests that they want to busy their selves in, so i don't have to feel selfish when i want to be alone, and so that we'll each have interesting things to share with one another. i like a guy with some passion of his own.
    must enjoy silence. talk is cheap, baby. i don't want to hear your dull stories 24/7. can't we both just go out to eat, me with my magazine, you with your book, and still know that there is love in the air.

    deal breakers:
    bad odors. i'm a bit of a hippie, myself... but i just cannot take foul odors.
    guy's who put too much effort into their hair, clothes, etc. i like manly, men. natural looking men.
    someone with no morals or questionable morals and values.
    someone who isn't open minded or tolerant of differences between people.
    constant negativity.
    "I don't know a perfect person.
    I only know flawed people who are still worth loving."
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    Desirable:
    ~ Laughs at my jokes.
    ~ Sensual and is appreciative of my uber-sensual nature.
    ~ Kind-hearted.
    ~ Intelligent.
    ~ Respects my passions/obsessions. (e.g. They may hate opera but they may not continously hate on it)
    ~ Lets me be me (while grounding me at the same time)
    ~ Level-headed (One of us has to be)

    Dealbreakers:
    ~ Control-freak
    ~ Judgmental
    ~ Subpar hygiene
    ~ Uber-rigid
    ~ Cannibal


    *Once upon a time, I may have put "plays games" in the deal-breakers list but my INFJ, wonderful as they may be, has a tendency to do a bit of this. I've been tempted to walk away once or twice but we're deeply in love and I'm trying to partially accommodate this tendency while, at the same time, gently and gradually wean them of it. I think its part of the package, in a sense; I've yet to meet an INFJ that doesn't play games in the relationship department (at least in the beginning). I'm not saying they don't exist; I've just yet to meet them.

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    Y'all have these covered.

    I agree with most everything my other SP compatriots have identified here.

    Big ones for me include:

    Must Be...
    Fun
    Good Sex, Often
    You Trust Me, I Trust You
    Must Have an Open Mind

    MUST NOT BE...
    Not Uptight
    Not a Spendthrift

    Don't Try to Tell Me What to Do...I Will Leave, I Play Fair, But Will Not Be Controlled

    NO HEADGAMES

    Don't Question Me...Just Kidding!
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    Would Like:

    -has a sense of wonder
    -adventurous, likes to try new things and can keep up with me (physically)
    -kind hearted

    Dealbreakers:

    -judgmental and narrow minded
    -seeks to control, to influence
    -cold and indifferent (which is somewhat hypocritical lol)

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    Deal Breakers -
    Low self-esteem
    Over-sensitive
    Testy

    Winning Attributes -
    Chill
    Humorous
    Out-spoken
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    Must Have:

    Female parts
    Maturity and independence (Can't live with parents -- I'm too old for that crap)
    low-stress laid back

    Deal Breaker:

    Gossip
    Love for shopping.
    (this has directly to do with my last two grilfriends)
    ...Then I ducked my head and the lights went out, and two guns blazed in the dark;
    And a woman screamed, and the lights went up, and two men lay stiff and stark...

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    No murderers or dudes thanks.
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