what's funny about your argument there is that you're talking about one of my few redeeming qualities
overall, I'll admit to being a pretty horrible person by conventional definitions- if there's a hell, I'm pretty much guarenteed a nice place at the table there- but you know what? I'm loyal. You fuck with someone I love and I will make you pay. I will stick by those that I love through the bad times as well as the good times and they can screw me over and I'll still be there (within reason... fuck up a few too many times and you get put on probation ). Once I've decided that someone is worthy of my loyalty it's hard to budge.
Funny, the one person who abused that the most was an NFJ... and he was never willing to trust me no matter how committed I was- it hurt