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    So, you ESFPs out there.. are you scared/hesitate of getting married?

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    The only ESFPs I've known have jumped into marriage headlong without thinking about what they were doing and regretted it later.
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    My mom is ESFP and married her first husband when she was 18.

    She's married to her third husband, but they've been together for like 17 years.

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    Hmm.. I'm an EX-ESFP..

    Yea. I'm scared to devote my life to someone; who knows what they can do..

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    I'm pretty sure my mom is an ESFP and she's been married . . . to four guys and was never married to my dad. One marriage ended when her husband died suddenly (If she had a one true love that was him). She married and divorced one of the guys three times and one of them twice. At 61 she's currently sworn off men. Only time will tell.

    I think there is seriously something besides ESFP going on there, though -- borderline personality disorder or bipolar or something.
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    Thanks for everyones input so far.
    How do you think a marriage between an ESFP female and an ISFJ male would pan out? Positives, negatives? She's 24 he's 27.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2XtremeENFP View Post
    Thanks for everyones input so far.
    How do you think a marriage between an ESFP female and an ISFJ male would pan out? Positives, negatives? She's 24 he's 27.
    Fairly good I´d say but it depends on a lot of other things as well. Experience, maturity, position in life, upbringing etc etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pettycure View Post
    The only ESFPs I've known have jumped into marriage headlong without thinking about what they were doing and regretted it later.
    oooo YES! so true of what i've witnessed!

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    My current ESFP boyfriend is divorced. He seems to jump into things. Although, I forced him to take his time with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2XtremeENFP View Post
    So, you ESFPs out there.. are you scared/hesitate of getting married?
    It's not really the ESFPs who are afraid of devotion... more like the etype 7's. Those are the ones who are irrationally afraid of devotion. :P
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