First off, not trying to anger anyone here. I've learned to be very cautious with what I say in this section. Anyway, in my venturer group, most of the members seem to be ESFP with a bit of ESTP. It's not a large group. Anyway, I've noticed that they often tend to talk about people they know negatively and sometimes meanly, ut only when they're not around. They never say anything negative to a persons face. As an INTJ I sometimes feel a little out of sync with the rest. One member there I actually find quite annoying because he's basically prejudiced in every way possible (I think he's an ISXJ but not sure) and nobody really says anything about it, but I often confront him for this and when I do, the others try to change the subject and laugh about it like it hasn't happened. Is this normal behaviour for ESPs, to talk behind others backs but always try to keep the others happy when in conversation with them? It frustrates me sometimes because the guy can be so racist, sexist etc and also it seems a bit dishonest.