I am currently going out with, what I am pretty sure is an ISTP.
He is very into me, and in some point I feel he is "focusing" in on me-which is cool, and kinda creepy.
He also displays some traits which I am not so sure is characteristic of ISTPs or maybe they are. If they dont knock out him being an ISTP, Im kinda curious to know where they are coming from lol.
He isnt communicative about how he feels, but sometimes he will send sappy romantic texts, since he knows I like them. They come off as weird-not too genuine, coming from him.
He likes to help people, mostly with practical things and giving advice. Hes very vague in the relationship-I know hes crazy over me, but I have no clue as to why. However, he is always trying to help in some way-mostly in trying to explain why I should get engaged to him and how he can help relationship. On topic, he is always asking "what I can do to help" -not sure with what, but he is good at sensing what I need and buying me presents, and going along with what I want, and being very tolerant and uncritical of me, and even offering to go to the airport at 4am with me. Sorta like Mr. fix it guy
He likes to be better safe than sorry with safety and is concerned about my safety, but boy does he take risks as well.
When vulnerable-about 10% of the time, he will express compassion for someone, a slightly more feeling side or talk about his grandmas last days.
Hes not intropective so he thinks he more emotional and heart centered than he is and even almost tested as feeler.
He is skeptical, opinionated, defensive and likes to debate. Not that I think thats a bad thing.
Also-he NEVER really talks about himself, on a personal level.