from an NF to an NF dating an ISTP, i say keep him as a pal, not a lover.
seeing that the issue is a lack of affirmation anyway, it's kind of like he had better REALLY want to be with you to keep him around and show that to you in actions. otherwise, you're probably just going to feel needy and desperate... and we hate that feeling.
you're probably not just an easy lay to him, but he probably isn't going to want more with you than a friendship w/benefits. and whether you allow the benefits is up to you. i would think he'd want to stay your friend either way.
yep. closure.He replied saying that he had a good time with me but bec he just got out of a long-term relationship, he didnt want a serious relationship...that he wished the circumstances could've been different...but he'd like for us to stay in touch.