[ISTP] ISTP - "friends with benefits" relationships

[cafe]

I'm just going to say this, considering this thread has diverged wildly from it's original course anyway...

Some punk teenager (or old lady) hit my parked car and left my driver's window shattered all over the place and screwed up the door. What a great thing to find at the end of a long work day.


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Relevancy, you may wonder?

I'ma go get drunk and go to some divebar and hope to get some pity sex from a cougar, or that bartender that I took a body shot off of last week.



It'll make me feel better.

Y'all should be out working on getting some. FYI.

That sucks. Happy hunting . . . or rather happy being hunted . . .

 

[Intricate Mystic]

Hm... a work-out? Extracurricular activity?

Ah, I'm teasin. I agree with you. For me, I have to share some kind of really strong connection --mental, physical, emotional-- with someone before I can have sex with them. After that, it's just sex. Granted, I may develop feelings for that person over time, but as a result of a general relationship, not simply due to sex.

Thank you.

I'm just going to say this, considering this thread has diverged wildly from it's original course anyway...

Some punk teenager (or old lady) hit my parked car and left my driver's window shattered all over the place and screwed up the door. What a great thing to find at the end of a long work day.

Sorry to hear that! Do you think you'll have to replace the whole door?

 

[Chuckums]

hope to get some pity sex from a cougar

I knew you were crazy, but that's sheer lunacy-you'll get your shit ripped to shreads!!

 

[Chuckums]

I mean, how the hell are you gonna hold the damn thing down??

 

[McRumi]

All I'm seeing in this thread are the Ts trying to explain their point of view and the NFs projecting and telling them they're wrong.

People, start listening, you might learn something.

LOL. Yes. NFs always try their best to control and correct the irrepressible ISTP.

A losing battle but amusing to us.

 

[StephMC]

I'm just going to say this, considering this thread has diverged wildly from it's original course anyway...

Some punk teenager (or old lady) hit my parked car and left my driver's window shattered all over the place and screwed up the door. What a great thing to find at the end of a long work day.


...







Relevancy, you may wonder?

I'ma go get drunk and go to some divebar and hope to get some pity sex from a cougar, or that bartender that I took a body shot off of last week.



It'll make me feel better.

Y'all should be out working on getting some. FYI.

You make me proud.

 

[Intricate Mystic]

LOL. Yes. NFs always try their best to control and correct the irrepressible ISTP.

A losing battle but amusing to us.

You know entirely too much about NFs.

 

[Poki]

Yeah I'm much more friendly towards him lately, so he does talk to me. The acknowledge presence but avoiding each other phase was a month ago. I naturally catch on to the general atmosphere of the group and mirror people's attitudes so when I felt like he was cold to me I would be cold to him too... I'm trying to get over that.

What are some of the actions that I can take to convey to an ISTP that I care for him?

Pretty much all it takes for me is that at the end of the day you enjoy my company, appreciate what I try to do, and want to be around me. Im a touch person so sit close to me, lean on me, hold my arm, etc. But thats me, not sure about your ISTP.

 

[Rachelinpa]

Pretty much all it takes for me is that at the end of the day you enjoy my company, appreciate what I try to do, and want to be around me. Im a touch person so sit close to me, lean on me, hold my arm, etc. But thats me, not sure about your ISTP.

that's my istp too. low maintenance.

 

[countrygirl]

that's my istp too. low maintenance.

+1 They are like catutus. Water once a week.

I don't think I could handle a man who was all drama and needed his ego stroked constantly.

 

[StephMC]

that's my istp too. low maintenance.

+1 They are like catutus. Water once a week.

I don't think I could handle a man who was all drama and needed his ego stroked constantly.

Don't forget to feed us though.

 

[sLiPpY]

 

[lasdf23]

Haha I don't check this thread for a day and look how much it digressed! I love it though, life is so fun for you guys, you know exactly what you like and you're unapologetic about it. Simply beautiful.

So far I think I'll just try not to think about this too much, take a relaxed attitude about it. Try not to over-analyze each and every one of his words, attitudes, or actions. Can't assume consistency with free-spirited people!

 

[McRumi]

Haha I don't check this thread for a day and look how much it digressed! I love it though, life is so fun for you guys, you know exactly what you like and you're unapologetic about it. Simply beautiful.

So far I think I'll just try not to think about this too much, take a relaxed attitude about it. Try not to over-analyze each and every one of his words, attitudes, or actions. Can't assume consistency with free-spirited people!

Brava~!

 

[Chuckums]

Haha I don't check this thread for a day and look how much it digressed!

See what you started?!?! :hi:

This thread with all that talk about sex got me horny, but my INFJ wife has all the control there

 

[Intricate Mystic]

See what you started?!?! :hi:

This thread with all that talk about sex got me horny, but my INFJ wife has all the control there

Well, if she's like me, all the planets have to be in the right alignment for something to happen in that department. Sex has to be cosmic and spiritual for us.

 

[countrygirl]

Don't forget to feed us though.

My husband knows that the fridge is in the kitchen.

 

[Chuckums]

Well, if she's like me, all the planets have to be in the right alignment for something to happen in that department. Sex has to be cosmic and spiritual for us.

Looks like I need to invest in a good observatory telescope!

 

[Bamboo]

That sucks. Happy hunting . . . or rather happy being hunted . . .

hahahaha

Sorry to hear that! Do you think you'll have to replace the whole door?

meh i got some new glass from the part yard and just installed it (it's snowing, plastic bag in snow is no good)...it seems to work. bondo? ugly for now but...she's a beater.

I knew you were crazy, but that's sheer lunacy-you'll get your shit ripped to shreads!!

but i'll learn something in the process.

I mean, how the hell are you gonna hold the damn thing down??

rope or chain. whatever's around the house.

probably something left over from a project hubby never finished.

You make me proud.

i know.

 

[cafe]

Well, if she's like me, all the planets have to be in the right alignment for something to happen in that department. Sex has to be cosmic and spiritual for us.

Not me. Sex is one of the few areas where I can turn off my frikken brain for awhile and just experience sensations. All I really need is for us to both be home, awake, and have a reasonable expectation that the kids aren't going to hear or interrupt us.