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    Quote Originally Posted by cafe View Post
    Not me. Sex is one of the few areas where I can turn off my frikken brain for awhile and just experience sensations. All I really need is for us to both be home, awake, and have a reasonable expectation that the kids aren't going to hear or interrupt us.
    That's great! I think I go around stressing about stuff too much and can't relax.

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    Looks like I need to invest in a good observatory telescope!
    HaHa
    I just thought of something... maybe offering your INFJ a glass of wine or two would be helpful.


    Quote Originally Posted by Bamboo View Post
    meh i got some new glass from the part yard and just installed it (it's snowing, plastic bag in snow is no good)...it seems to work. bondo? ugly for now but...she's a beater.
    Yaaaay....new glass! Your area is supposed to get slammed with 2 ft. of snow, I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charles Isaac View Post
    Looks like I need to invest in a good observatory telescope!



    Nice and big.

    The color is a bit worrying, though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heinel View Post
    Nice and big.

    The color is a bit worrying, though.
    I'm ISTP male, didn't even look at the color, but if I had some weird complex and felt I had to compensate for something, I would have picked this one-

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    Quote Originally Posted by Intricate Mystic View Post
    HaHa
    I just thought of something... maybe offering your INFJ a glass of wine or two would be helpful.
    The planets have to be aligned for her to drink too.......along with the correct barometric pressure and humidity percentage

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charles Isaac View Post
    The planets have to be aligned for her to drink too.......along with the correct barometric pressure and humidity percentage
    Do you have young children?
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
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    With apologies to Bette Davis: Why look at the stars when we have a sandwich in hand?

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    I have a bowl of Lucky Charms going right now!

    Yes Cafe, we have young children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charles Isaac View Post
    The planets have to be aligned for her to drink too.......along with the correct barometric pressure and humidity percentage
    I read somewhere that INFJ's have a narrow comfort range in terms of things like room temperature. I don't know why we are sensitive like that.

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    With apologies to Bette Davis: Why look at the stars when we have a sandwich in hand?
    How can a sandwich compare with this?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Charles Isaac View Post
    Yes Cafe, we have young children.
    When my kids were little it was pretty hard on the ole' sex drive. It's taxing on an Ni dominant's brain to focus on the concrete stuff little ones need -- constantly. The husband starts to feel like one more person needing something from you, touching you, pulling on you . . .

    Things got a lot easier once the kids were more self-sufficient. It's still hard because of scheduling -- he goes to bed before the kids do and goes to work by 5 AM most of the time, but at least when there is opportunity and we're both awake I feel like sex is a treat again instead of yet another obligation.

    So it'll probably get better eventually, if she had something like a normal sex drive before kids.
    “There are two novels that can change a bookish fourteen-year old’s life: The Lord of the Rings and Atlas Shrugged. One is a childish fantasy that often engenders a lifelong obsession with its unbelievable heroes, leading to an emotionally stunted, socially crippled adulthood, unable to deal with the real world. The other, of course, involves orcs.”
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