Another time this guy I was kinda dating said that we'd remain exclusive unless we gave the other 2 weeks notice about someone else... Um, this isn't a job?! Wtf. That was stupid. Also meant we weren't exclusive at all if all we had to do was say "hey, in 2 weeks I'm gonna go on a date with this other person..." *sigh*
Arbitrary rules between people are stupid.
Right now I'm friends with a girl who is uncomfortable talking about her friendship with this guy she used to date for a long time. Makes me a little uneasy 'cause I don't feel like I can say anything around her about him. I certainly don't feel like I can ask either 'cause it seems like I'm interrogating her when I know she doesn't *really* want to talk about it. Idk, it's weird when people make rules for friendship. I say just let it happen. Don't worry about it. The truth comes out eventually, might as well squish possibility for rumors by getting it out now.