I made an ESxP mad (hurt?) recently through something that was kind of both our faults...He lashed out at me, didn't acknowledge any responsibility, then later told me he was still annoyed about it but "let's forget about it."
As a result I've withdrawn because I don't want to get hurt again (he's also gone away for an extended period of time so withdrawing was easy, though if things were ok we would have been in touch at least once in a while by email etc.) I don't know what to do about it. I don't think facing up to tricky emotional/ethical situations (both of which this was) is something he wants to do, but I feel like he really devalued my friendship.