I need those around me to trust me. Trust me and listen to me in what I need, what I think, what I say.
For a person that is in the moment we act alot on what is concrete without always digging into the why. We know what works, but when you ask why, we dont know why, just what is needed to reach what you want, what I want. I dont have explanations or reasons, its just something that works on the outside. If you fight it, do not blame me for what happens as you went against what I need. While it does not get to the root it does buy time to allow us to get to the root of the problem.
Sorry, but some people dont try to understand cause and affect. If I tell you what I need and you go against it dont blame me for my actions or next time I will not go against what I need. What you have just done is put into concrete form what happens when I do that and it will be done to protect you from my actions. So if you cant handle the response dont go against what I need. If you can handle it then feel free to go against what I need and deal with the outcome. It will then put into concrete form that you know what I need better than I do.