Hehe, it would be to Js yes
As a fellow P, I work the same way though. It's nothing to worry about. If we like you, and you're consistent (as a J) in the traits we like about you...we'll be back, don't worry
I'm not ISTP, but I don't like the "leash like" nature of this topic because I can relate to ISTP behavior. INFP's have the same need for space, time to think, and freedom to do our own thing.
Hence the very very loose, possibly elastic leash
Originally Posted by poki
You jane, me tarzan I will let you build your house in my jungle
I will initiate contact if you really mean something to me, but it has to be for a reason. Always let me find that reason and I will never lose touch.
LOL..yeah..you are ISTP
It's just that to me, I enjoy people coming to me coz I enjoy my space, but don't mind them tapping on my shoulder if something's on their mind or they just want some fun. I'll keep from initiating convo's though if I can help it, coz I don't wanna be pushy and force people into a convo out of politeness (I know, I know).
So...I'm kinda wondering how that works with you guys, I guess. Ime, ISTPs tend to leave a convo very abruptly and..when intrigued enough, seem not to have a problem initiating one either.