i have asked istps why they have loved certain romantic interests so much and it seems they cannot give me a specific answer.
is this an istp thing? i guess i'm looking for something that says, "she was completely different than anyone i'd ever met before and here is why..." but instead all i get is, "she was a cool girl" or "he treated me well."
totally not a bad thing at all, but i find it interesting.
i guess i'm looking for the X factor to be defined, and maybe i'm not capable of it either... i dunno. just curious if other istps can describe the specifics or unique qualities about their past or current persons.