I'm sure you have goals- everybody does.
But how do others perceive you and your goals?
Have you ever been accused of being aimless or have no goals?
Has anyone ever expressed concerns about how you are going about trying to accomplish your goals?
I ask because my GF is an ISFP, and I'm considering marriage. As an ISTJ, words alone do not convince me with her, at least for this aspect. She has told me her goals, but I don't see or sense that she's doing anything about it. It's almost like she gave me something just to satisfy my question.
I did read that ISFPs often have their own way of going after their goals, which I interpreted to mean that they handle their business in their own way, which may differ from the pace and concern that their more bottom line conscious friends (Js) have.
Should I be concerned?
Any insight would be appreciated.