Actually, I think I'm more private than I thought. I actually hate answering personal questions... but I'm not worried about people finding the information out on their own through Facebook or whatever.
i am pretty open, although i don't always talk a lot. but if someone asks me a personal question i will pretty much always answer it.
haha, but sometimes i do get these very stubborn moods where i really don't want to talk about myself at all. they come out of nowhere. i will be in a very good mood, i just don't want to talk about me. so i will get especially talkative, and start turning the conversation to focus on everyone else. haha. who knows?
I'm pretty private. No one really knows what I do in my free time, and that's alright with me. I'd rather not be judged on what I do or don't do. If people want to get to know me they just have to know that I don't do stupid illegal things while I'm alone. Just because I don't talk about myself doesn't mean I moonlight stealing cars!
I don't have a love life but when I was young I had a few flings, and no one else ever knew about them. It was so much simpler that way, even though it was a lot of work to maintain those secrets. I had nothing to be ashamed of, but I still didn't want other people knowing my business... imagining me doing it with so-and-so... yuck! I don't want my likeness parading around naked in other people's thoughts.
If it's "simple" but it takes a lot of work to keep it private - it's simply not worth the effort for me. Eventually people are going to find out whether I talk or not. People see things happen. Not all of them are stupid. Some make conclusions about things they see. Obviously that's how rumors start...and if you don't want rumors, just tell them what's really happening. I'm not encouraging divulging details but a "yeah, we've been spending a lot of time together, idk where it's going" isn't hard to say and it'll most likely satisfy whoever is interested in the topic.
Sure, I'd rather most people not know tons about me, but I cannot possibly control what other people say or think about me. If they want to imagine me naked banging some sex freak....they're gonna do it whether they hear about my relationship with someone else or not. C'est la vie.
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