Wake up, fool around for an hour, he goes on his pc for what I call "his morning session", we get ready to go skiing (this takes 30 to 45 minutes), we get in his truck and enjoy a beautiful drive to the mountains , we usually stop and I run out to get us coffee, we go skiing in the afternoon, we talk and kiss on the lifts and then listen to music while actually skiing, he's much better than me, but we manage, then on the way home I make us stop at some place we haven't been before just to get a new vibe, be it a store, or a restaurant, he gets fast food, and then we go back home and both of us play/work on our PCs while intermittently showing each other cool stuff and inevitably getting into random thought-provoking conversations, thanks to me.
EDIT: And, if he's lucky, he gets some action again. I tend to always fall asleep a couple of hours before him, which works, I sleep, and he gets his "alone time". He always wakes me up when he comes back to bed though! I swear, sometimes I think he thinks I'm a play thing!!!
This sounds like an awesome day! No wonder he likes you.
I am very private...even a bit paranoid. Internet anonymity is very important to me. I've never been in a relationship, but if I were in one I'd like to keep it as low key as possible, and I would rather not show PDA. It's goes against my usual style, which is to draw the least amount of attention as possible. If a girl needs PDA, she's probably too clingy for me anyway.
I can't stand PDA. It's an instant attention magnet. I hate seeing other people PDA. Holding hands, *A* kiss, *A* hug...that's all good, but some kids these days are just making out all over the place. Blegh. This weekend I went to a coaster park here and there were so many teeny bopper couples that couldn't let go of each other D:
Originally Posted by jixmixfix
I prefer low and key, I only tell people I trust anything personal I have a good amount of people I can trust so I'm grateful for that....I like being around people but even just being there is fine sometimes i prefer not to talk at all.
So true! See, my ESTP bff, he and I can just chill out, quite time is ok. The ESFP I've been hanging out with recently...she doesn't stop! Omg, it's constant conversation the whoooooooooole time. It's tiring D:
Originally Posted by poki
I do this alot, things just dont occur to me to say until it comes up or pops in my head.
No kidding. I just don't think to say some things.
Originally Posted by poki
So what if your ISTPs other person(ESTP) was a female? Thats kinda the predicament I got into. The other person was a female ENFP. As an ISTP we need out of our head about personal stuff and to do that I need things to do. I am a very active person. The activity doesnt have to be movement, I just like doing things.
We like the company of people, but it needs to be people we can be relaxed and comfortable around and joke and play.
No lie, I love the ESTP to death and I'd do almost anything for him, but I'd rather die than be in a relationship with him! We make amazing friends, but that's plenty
Originally Posted by MDP2525
This sounds like an awesome day! No wonder he likes you.
And to the original topic...
I use my real name online and stuff. I don't feel like maintaining an online identity, secrecy...it's too hard. I'm lazy! If you're friends with me on Facebook or any other social site, you're someone I know in person. I'm not terribly concerned with my FB friends taking all of my information and using it against me. Having said that, I don't post my phone number or address or anything sensitive like that. I'm not a complete idiot. Even with an online identity, if the person is smart enough, they will be able to find out everything they want to about me. It just takes some hacking. Might as well make it easy on myself (and them) and just use myself as the identity.
I'm not really paranoid at all. I'm quite gullible, tho. For that reason, I think I'm a bit skeptical at times, but I think it's warranted. It's not like it gets in the way of my life, and it's not usually about important things. I mean, I don't think I'm being followed or tracked by the government too much. It's just little things, like when people tell stories and the exaggerate or include weird details...I just wonder sometimes.
I'm private about relationship stuff. I have a hard time talking about feelings, mainly because I think they're unimportant and irrelevant. It's a combination of privacy and just a lack of anything to say about this sort of thing. I don't talk about my sexual experience a whole lot either. People have to ask me point blank about things. Even then, sometimes I just tell them I don't talk about my own experience. Honestly, it's not usually any of their business. If they had any reason at all to know, I might divulge the information.
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It annoys me greatly when people now the specifics of my private life. I haven't had much of a drive to be in a relationship so now that I am probably in one (dating for a while now ) I've noticed all my friends tee-heeing behind my back 'cuz willfrey finally got a girlfriend its soooooo cute... *grumbles*
I just hate being a part of a gossip circuit, I found somebody who thankfully doesn't share all the same friends as I and respects a need for privacy.
...Then I ducked my head and the lights went out, and two guns blazed in the dark;
And a woman screamed, and the lights went up, and two men lay stiff and stark...
I don't give out personal information freely on the intertubes (except for things like gender or age). But that has less to do with my paranoia than it does with the fact that it's none of your damn business, thank you very much.
In Real Life, I'm very sociable (up to a certain threshold...) but I never share anything truly 'deep' about myself. Nobody but me knows my greatest hopes, fears, desires and dreams. I never talk to anybody about what's bothering me. I never let anybody into my 'inner world' and I'd like to keep it that way. I guess that I have a hard time believing that anybody really wants to hear about half the shit I think and feel, but that's fine because I end up sorting everything out on my own anyway.
EDIT: Perhaps the only reason that I even mentioned any of this is because I'm anonymous here... and I might as well give it a shot, in case anyone finds this useful.
Sooooo, you guys are a highly private bunch when it comes to people outside yourself or your immediate circle.
The ISTP in question told me he had no problem with me discussing him to other people, (as long as there was no tape recording device ) because that form of communication is transient whereas this form of communication is permanent.
He also said I can yap away about him if I take down all identifiable pics of myself.
But, but, but...
I've been foruming since 2005 and have been using my face as an avatar since, to do differently would just not be me.
but I never share anything truly 'deep' about myself. Nobody but me knows my greatest hopes, fears, desires and dreams. I never talk to anybody about what's bothering me. I never let anybody into my 'inner world' and I'd like to keep it that way. I guess that I have a hard time believing that anybody really wants to hear about half the shit I think and feel, but that's fine because I end up sorting everything out on my own anyway.
This is where the guilt sets in, this ISTP shares your sentiment, Trepidation, but since we've intimately known each other for nine years, he lets me into his world, his innermost doubts/feelings.
And I don't want to be a blabbermouth and broadcast them over the intertubes, but, dammit, he's an integral part of my life!
Discussing him is therapeutic to me and our relationship, plus he does and says all types of awesome shit that I feel compelled to share.
We both have a sick sense of humor, and I have no shame in my game, and neither does he, but he wants to make hypothetical clearance for hypothetically _______.
I just wish there was a way I could more anonymously discuss him.
I'm just very open on this forum.
I posted about what my vagina looks like for christ's sakes, (he was humored by this, fyi (he thinks I'm one ballsy bitch ))
So, what do you ISTPs think I should do?
What would be morally responsible because I do not want to infringe on his rights.
This entire issue was addressed when I told him that I discussed one time about the fact that he has a whole bunch of very specific pictures of me, (no, not those kinds of pictures ) really awesome ones, ones that I'm proud of.
Well, I'll tell you guys again,
Well we went on this epic road trip and he took multiple pictures of me peeing in different states, cities, biomes, IT WAS AWESOME!!!!
Hahahaa, if it were up to me, I'd make a collage of them.
Alas, I am doing it again, revealing his "secrets"
But, they're my experiences tooooooo!!!
'Cause you can't handle me...
"A lie is a lie even if everyone believes it. The truth is the truth even if nobody believes it." - David Stevens
"That that is, is. That that is not, is not. Is that it? It is."