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    I really don't see the point in friends with cuddling benefits. What's the point/goal? Seems like something that could easily lead to or be interpreted as more (sex or relationship). And if that's what you want, fine. If not, what are you doing?

    Is it like a dressing up nice and putting on make-up, for an evening by yourself-kind of thing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    I think the answer here is "minute maids" for you, and some new company that some smart enterprising person could open called "Cuddle buds" or something like that, for me.
    No need to wait around for a paying service. There is a saying: a dog is a man's best friend and a gay man is a woman's best friend.

    Just make sure they are really gay, and not "asexual".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Heh. Take a look at the related groups.

    I'm going to take off my NFP hat and pretend like none of this means a thing: Open Society, Bad Girl, Craigslist, Hedonism, Adult Entertainment Industry, Naturism, Tantric, Polyamory,Massage Therapy, Aromatherapy
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    Quote Originally Posted by luminous beam View Post
    incorporating more affection into one's life has its benefits. it feels nice to get a hug, a cuddle, a pat on the shoulder, etc. but these free hugs surely differ from having cuddle buds whom are used to try to fill the void within. i don't think cuddling w/a friend is anything bad, if it's good and natural, do it by all means. but consider why you would need to officially have a "cuddle buddy." it might appear to be something that's done for the hell of it, but is it usually just that?
    This is what people tell me about myself as to pick up and not settling down with a SO.
    My initial warning on this thread was to the guy recipient, more of an expectation management and balancing the equities. Unlike many of the other posters I really don't place a value judgment on the "ninja" who is causing this situation to fulfill ‘her’ needs.

    Of course this may be the ninja body telling your mind you need a SO (or a SO better at addressing your needs) or it also may be an outwardly thing like power or an unconventional way of expressing friendship.

    My cat takes care of a lot of my strictly cuddle needs and both of us are happy it just stops there and doesn’t go any farther.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Salt n' pepper View Post
    Is it like a dressing up nice and putting on make-up, for an evening by yourself-kind of thing?
    Hey... don't knock on my hobbies, and I won't knock on yours
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    Quote Originally Posted by EnFpFer View Post
    Heh. Take a look at the related groups.

    I'm going to take off my NFP hat and pretend like none of this means a thing: Open Society, Bad Girl, Craigslist, Hedonism, Adult Entertainment Industry, Naturism, Tantric, Polyamory, Massage Therapy, Aromatherapy

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    Quote Originally Posted by luminous beam View Post
    but these free hugs surely differ from having cuddle buds whom are used to try to fill the void within.
    I'll give you a hug AND fill your void all free of charge.

    Get it?

    Get it?!?
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    Re: Giggly Cuddle Groups thread

    I think I will join infiltrate one of these groups these groups just for the kick trying to "jump the ladder" of pushing it closer to makeout/foreplay (i.e. start kissing the "cuddle buddy" Cuddle Buddy: Hey! what the fuck are you doing. Me: Nothing babe just cuddling. BTW do you mind if I take off my shirt...
    Last edited by Vizconde; 10-14-2009 at 11:57 AM. Reason: misquote
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    Cuddle party!


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    Concerning cuddle parties...

    You know how women will happily cuddle with a guy they would never have sex with?
    Well I'm guessing the guys who show up at the cuddle parties are the types most women won't touch with a 10 foot pole, much less get cuddly with.

    Nobody makes a big deal out of something they don't have a problem getting.
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