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    Quote Originally Posted by SilkRoad View Post
    Sorry if that sounds uptight, but I think this "cuddling benefits" idea has more downsides than upsides.
    But what if you're friends with a guy who really does just want to cuddle? Would you trust him if he told you that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by EnFpFer View Post
    But what if you're friends with a guy who really does just want to cuddle? Would you trust him if he told you that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    "We can just lie together naked. It'll be fun...we don't need to do anything..."
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    Quote Originally Posted by EnFpFer View Post
    Makes a move. I don't know, can a guy really just have a cuddle...!?

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    **Dodges move.** I thought you just wanted to be naked cuddle friends! Ugh..men.

    See, I have a tendency to believe what people tell me, and there are guys here that are saying that they can just cuddle. If so, that's hella sweet, and I've never met these types of people. Kudos and cheers to them damnit. Also, it's not fair!!**end rant**

    I mean, it makes sense to me to a degree. People do need physical intimacy outside of sex. I just couldn't go about it in that way. I'd end up pregnant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EnFpFer View Post
    But what if you're friends with a guy who really does just want to cuddle? Would you trust him if he told you that?
    Man, this would really depend on the situation/variablesbut overall, I think it would be weird Sorry, its just the thought of having this I wish to cuddle, but with no sexual implications conversation, and then proceeding to the cuddling

    Honestly, I think any such scenario would be weird enough for me that I wouldnt be able to enjoy the cuddling anyway! Dont get me wrong, I love physical contact but I think I have resigned myself to restricting a lot of it to situations where there isnt much room for ambiguity about my relationship with the other person.
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    Okay, to those who think "just cuddling" is not a big deal:

    a) would you cuddle with a friend you thought was downright ugly?

    b) would you cuddle with a friend if you were in a relationship?

    c) would you cuddle with a friend in front of your partner?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Okay, to those who think "just cuddling" is not a big deal:

    a) would you cuddle with a friend you thought was downright ugly?

    b) would you cuddle with a friend if you were in a relationship?

    c) would you cuddle with a friend in front of your partner?
    Maybe I am simplifying cuddling to much. I can cuddle with my 5 year old son. I simply put my arm around him as we lay on the couch. The difference is all in your head.

    Picture that your laying in front of the couch and a friend of the opposite sex comes up and lays in front of you. You put your arm around her and watch TV together. That is cuddling, nothing more nothings less. So are you saying that anytime someone of the opposite sex lays next to you you think that something has to happen?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Okay, to those who think "just cuddling" is not a big deal:

    a) would you cuddle with a friend you thought was downright ugly?

    b) would you cuddle with a friend if you were in a relationship?

    c) would you cuddle with a friend in front of your partner?
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    ^Really? Ok. In that case, I cuddle all the time. I mean, I ride on my really tall guy friend's backs still. Sometimes I'll sit on one of their knees.

    When I think of cuddling though..cuddle buddying...I'm thinking of spooning. I'm thinking of being under the covers with them, in a full embrace, with jammies on, stroking their hair. Or nestled into the nooks of their body to feel their warmth and their body against mine. That's how I define cuddling. If the later is what is meant by cuddling; then no, I'd never do that outside of my relationship unless we were opening it. And I wouldn't do that with "just a friend" either for my previously mentioned reasons.
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