[ISFP] How do you know an ISFP women loves you?

[Kambro]

Hi

I am an INTJ male and would like to know how one knows if an ISFP female likes/loves a person.

 

[Yosako]

Easy. If she sends a million dollars into your bank account by no reason, you can safely say she loves you.

 

[Julie1962]

I have hard time expressing my emotions verbally so I tend to do it in writing (cards, emails) or actions (physically, deeds, gifts). I don't know about other ISFP females but I never opened up to any guy too easily. And I didn't like many men either. So if I did decide to trust you and tell you my secrets, it's because I was falling in love.

 

[King sns]

I have hard time expressing my emotions verbally so I tend to do it in writing (cards, emails) or actions (physically, deeds, gifts). I don't know about other ISFP females but I never opened up to any guy too easily. And I didn't like many men either. So if I did decide to trust you and tell you my secrets, it's because I was falling in love.

I'm the same way...
Except that even after I love someone I don't open up to them. I still have trouble trusting at that point. Normally I just give lots of hugs, go out of my way to spend time with them, and just seem generally happy in their presence. (Giggling, joking a lot, telling stories.) This actually goes for romantic and friendship love for me. The only difference with the romantic love is the added physical aspect. And i'll tell them "I love you." As long as they say it first. That's about it. Very hard to tell I think .

 

[Willfrey]

It's tough, from what I read they hold back on what they truly think/feel much of the time. I don't think they'd mesh too well with other introverts, I believe they are one of those types where you'll need to make the first move even if she does like you.

 

[istina]

I don't mean to hijack this thread, but would any male ISFPs be willing to comment on the question?

 

[Snuggletron]

I had an ISFP girl make the first moves once. It didn't end well. I wasn't confident or assertive enough at the time for anything to work. But she made it fairly obvious she was at least interested.

 

[wolfy]

If I like you I'll do things for you. Maybe not exactly the things you want me to do but I'll do them anyway. It is easy to tell if I like you.

edit...
I had some other thoughts later so... the way to tell if someone likes you is to look at their actions with others and then with you and notice the difference.

 

[Jeffster]

I don't mean to hijack this thread, but would any male ISFPs be willing to comment on the question?

Sure. I know an ISFP women loves me because all the womens loves me.

 

[Edgar]

Very hard to tell I think .

Not really.

ISFPs are very affectionate if they like you and are feeling comfortable. You'd have to be INxx social retard not to notice it.

 

[King sns]

Not really.

ISFPs are very affectionate if they like you and are feeling comfortable. You'd have to be INxx social retard not to notice it.

hard to tell with me.
not sure about anyone else.

 

[Edgar]

hard to tell with me.
not sure about anyone else.

Meh... all ISFPs think they are a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma... but I'm on to you.

 

[Jeffster]

Meh... all ISFPs think they are a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma... but I'm on to you.

Actually, I think I'm more like butter wrapped in bacon inside a pancake.

Pardon me, I'm gonna go get breakfast now.

 

[King sns]

Meh... all ISFPs think they are a riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma... but I'm on to you.

You knew that I loved you the whole time?

 

[Edgar]

Actually, I think I'm more like butter wrapped in bacon inside a pancake.

Pardon me, I'm gonna go get breakfast now.

You sound fat.

You knew that I loved you the whole time?

Yes. Your secret isn't much of a secret.

 

[Salt n' pepper]

Yes. Your secret isn't much of a secret.

I forget. The N is for Narcissism, right?

 

[Athenian200]

Actually, I think I'm more like butter wrapped in bacon inside a pancake.

Pardon me, I'm gonna go get breakfast now.

Ooh! Pigs in a Blanket?

You're making me want IHOP now.

 

[King sns]

Yes. Your secret isn't much of a secret.

Man, I don't feel like such a riddle wrapped in a mystery anymore. I'm going to have to reevaluate my identity.

 

[Salt n' pepper]

I'm going to have to reevaluate my identity.

Keep feeding the obese baby.

 

[King sns]

Keep feeding the obese baby.

lol!!!
I will, I was hoping to kill him off.