Over on socionics it talks about greedy ISTPs vs ungreedy ISTPs. I am the ungreedy ISTP. This type of ISTP according to socionics tends to be less socialable. We have been surrounded with people who we have always been able to show our love for and have it returned. Not to confuse romantic love with familial love. Familial love is a very deep caring love. I have not really had to step outside much to have basics needs of this type of caring love met. I think this type has become very goot at Fe+Se. We are internally very healthy people, but we lack alot of the social skills needed because we didnt have to venture out as much. We also dont know the social boundaries and limits to showing how much we care because we didnt have to. Its the equivalent of showering someone with actions to show you care. If someone does this and you are not expecting it you first question there actions. This is what I sense. The questioning of my actions. The thing is that I enjoy doing things for other people and go way out of my way to do it. With family I dont have to worry about things being taken from a caring to a romantic love so its like a saftey in regards to not having to worry about understanding feelings.
Because of this I do pick up a sense of questioning of my motives behind my actions. I notice this with quite a bit of people. Its like my actions go overboard according to social expectations.
This causes me to be unable to understand social distances.
Hopefully this helps clear up some from the first draft.