Yeah, my ENTP friend gets me on it all the time and makes me feel bad. It's a huge temperamental clash, in my opinion. I'm used to plans being canceled without much notice. I guess in his opinion everything should be adhered to strictly.
-stellar renegade coo-oo-ooool this madness down,
stop it right on tiiiiime!
It depends. I sometimes might say something that seems like a promise, but I may have previously attached a qualifier. You might catch the qualifier if you have a good memory for words and care enough to keep track of my words.
I just rarely make promises. You never know when you are going to die or something will come up or you will forget etc etc and you will not be able to carry through with that promise...
And letting people down after I make a promise to them, I just can't have it. It makes me feel like a horrible person with no honor who's word means nothing. Makes me feel like my dad. He's not horrible but his has made me promises and let me down way more times than I like to remember.