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    I can't understand being romantically interested in someone who seems to confuse you so badly. Surely that's a massive waste of your time? I can't even muster affection for someone that I don't "get". Either he's in it to win it, or his sorry behind can hit the bricks.

    INFP dating an ENFP... wow, what was *that* like? O.o
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    Alright... I'm going to make it clear that friendship is great. I'm freaked out out of my mind, because I don't know how he'll respond. Or IF he will respond. T_T Nonetheless, I don't want our friendship to die because of lack of communication.

    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    I can't understand being romantically interested in someone who seems to confuse you so badly. Surely that's a massive waste of your time? I can't even muster affection for someone that I don't "get". Either he's in it to win it, or his sorry behind can hit the bricks.

    INFP dating an ENFP... wow, what was *that* like? O.o
    The crush is dead, or in the process of dying. I got a big reality check that says: "YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!"

    It was either the best of times or the worst of times. The worst of times were extra bad because he had so much emotional baggage.
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    Good for you, dollbaby.
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    He has emotional baggage? Well this case has been sealed close and no more need for evidence. You're not gonna get a forthright answer from an ISTP with emotional baggage unless you know how to ask and give plenty of time and room.

    My type is the best at directing conversations and eluding questions, so of course an ISTP is probably going to have some of those qualities.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stellar renegade View Post
    He has emotional baggage? Well this case has been sealed close and no more need for evidence. You're not gonna get a forthright answer from an ISTP with emotional baggage unless you know how to ask and give plenty of time and room.

    My type is the best at directing conversations and eluding questions, so of course an ISTP is probably going to have some of those qualities.
    Noo, I was talking about the ENFP. XD
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    Oh, I see.
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    So...I said: "can I say something?"
    Which, of course, earned no response. Aggravating, but I'll give him the benefit of the doubt that he is busy or simply wanting me to get on with it.
    So now I'm going to just say it flat out and then say "comment would be lovely when you have the time."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coeur View Post
    So now I'm going to just say it flat out and then say "comment would be lovely when you have the time."
    Do you want to feel like you're in the waiting room though, filling out an appointment card? He should be banging down your door. (That sounded dirty... )

    Look, as with any man, if he's not got you sighted in the crosshairs (or at least acting like he does), it just doesn't sound good. You shouldn't have to be working so hard at this. If it requires that much finagling and thought, you might consider that the prize isn't worth the effort?
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    Do you want to feel like you're in the waiting room though, filling out an appointment card? He should be banging down your door. (That sounded dirty... )

    Look, as with any man, if he's not got you sighted in the crosshairs (or at least acting like he does), it just doesn't sound good. You shouldn't have to be working so hard at this. If it requires that much finagling and thought, you might consider that the prize isn't worth the effort?
    I am strongly considering ending the friendship if he doesn't asnwer. You're right: I SHOULDN'T need to be working this hard, at least not on my own.

    I'm hoping that he doesn't think that I lead him on or something. I, of course, have no idea what his feelings for me really are. Realistically, though, he is not showing positive signs of being interested.

    I also do get that he's at college and this is a big change for him. However, I don't think classes have started yet, and frankly... I don't care. It takes under 10 seconds to read and respond to a text message. He should MAKE time.
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    1) You probably just need to come right out and say what you want to say instead of, "Can I say something?" Our types are right to the point and he probably figures you just want to rehash in the same old way.

    2) Even if he feels for you alot of course he's going to want to avoid those feelings since they're impractical and will sweep him away. And if he's not interested, he's probably getting a little freaked out by all of this.

    I'm placing my bets on the former, though.
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