Well, he's a great man, and not so great. I've been his friend, and I've thought I've wanted to to. For every now and then, I've thought, fuck it. And so I've done.
But then again, I'm not the person to hold grudge. Not because of decision, it's just that I forget stuff and it becomes less significant. Then the underlying issues take over. Like he being an okay person and all.
Latest trouble come from a poker game. He has over-the-top silly girly-girl wife, a bit immature, young so it's acceptable - although she thinks she's a tough bone, experienced it all 'cos of having an alcoholic father (Laughing)
So I was expecting a lot from a poker game with her and the other female absent. I like being in mixed company, with guys only, or with girls only. It's just my experience of this thing working better with men.
Her wife was there, participated in the game, spoiled all the mood with extremely arrogant, mood-destroying behavior only concentrated on distracting the whole game as fucking much as she wanted, to take the winnings worth of zero euros.
She invented stuff to downplay men nonstop. Most especially, she invented stuff to embarass, downplay and harass her husband. I rarely see him in trouble, but this time he was in trouble. We all were. We were hit with the amount of juvenile behavior from a damned kindergarden raised to the power of ten.
I got agitated, I ended up criticizing her ways harshly.
I got away in seemingly good terms with everyone, but really it seemed like a damned disgrace.
The last win I'd want for her is the ability to inflict chaos and to disturb my friendship with the ESTP.
I'm not sure if the ESTP has fully realized everything around here, given how badly it all affected him. Or, then he has.
Three months has passed. I've sent them two invitations for something fun. They were unable to come the first time, haven't answered for the second.
After all this trouble, I'm thinking mentally, "pass". Let go.