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    Default ISFPs and kindness

    are ISFPs really that kind? I mean, all the ones I've met are kind and people tell me I'm kind, but I've said and thought really mean things before. I mean it's fairly uncommon, but if there's someone I really don't like I have no problem treating them like crap.

    am I alone on this?

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    No, definitely not. People have always told me I am kind, but I'm more "open" with my family. When I was a child, I bit my younger brother's arm for no reason at all(maybe I was jealous). Now, it's mostly verbal and I have said nasty things to my family, and I always felt guilty almost every after encounter..but at least I got my point across. I think we ISFPs are too hard on ourselves. It's really quite dangerous to bottle up feelings inside for they have a possibility of coming out in inappropriate situations. So, cheer up!
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    I treat people in kind. I start out being nice to people and continue to be nice to people until they prove they don't deserve niceness. If someone does act like a jerk to me, I have no problem being sharp with them. :steam:

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    My dd, whom I suspect is ISFP, is capable of being unkind. Generally, she's very live and let live, and is naturally kind and gentle, but if you push her far enough, she can be downright scrappy.
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    I am very kind until my ENTJ shadow appears. Then all hell breaks loose!

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    I know two ISFP's and they are both exceptionally gentle and nice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MonkeyGrass View Post
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    keirsy says isfp's are the kindest of all the types.... but obviously, no one is daisies, sun beams and puppy dogs all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edge View Post
    keirsy says isfp's are the kindest of all the types.... but obviously, no one is daisies, sun beams and puppy dogs all the time.
    Definitely true. I can be quite a bitch at times when under stress. But most of the time I'm kind to a fault.

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