I am an ENFP girl who has a ISFP male friend, who recently breakup with his girlfriend. I wonder how I can be a better friend to him?
( I am not trying to be his new girlfriend, just a better friend)
I never met him face to face. We only chat online. I left several general messages to him, he did not answer at all.
I read that ISFP need a lot of personal space.
I wonder if I should stop chatting of any kind, until he "recovered".
My own weakness, I like to keep contact and try to cheer a friend as I saw he is going through a personal crisis.
Question to ISFP male in this forum:
1 As a girl, I do not know how ISFP male handle breakup?
please share your experience on how you feel?
will ISFP male be heart broken?
Or try to put on a brave face say he is OK?
2 Do you want friends to write and demand replies?
(want replies as I need feedback good or bad)
3 what do ISFP male needs from friends as general?
4 I read that "ISFP believe in actions speaker louder than words." My difficulty is I can only communicate with him through writing. Supportive actions like invite him to dinner is not possible.
so in my case, it is Words that keep this friendship going.
stop writing means no more friendship.
face to face or phone is NOT an option.
Thank U for reading this long passage.
I appreciate your thoughts and your help.