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    Default What are an ESFPs views on sex?

    This might seem kind of strange coming from an ESFP because I should know, right? But I was trying to explain my views to someone and I really couldn't sum it up. How would you describe it?
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    Well..
    not my forte really
    For an ESFP, i'm not as interested as I should be.
    Well, tell me your views. I may have something to add.

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    I think it's about self-expression and satisfaction of the partner. ESFP is one of the types most likely to addicted to sex. I would say they see sex much as a game (because of their entertainer nature)

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    well I like to try everything and mostly I think I like to impress my partner. Like I want to show them that I'm the ideal woman because I'm sweet and innocent on the outside and super crazy in the bedroom. I'm definitely really open to everything and I think that's why it's so easy for me to enjoy myself. I really like my partner to enjoy me and give me lots of positive feedback. But there's like two sides of it for me. There's the fun part which is what I described above and then there's this emotional side of it. Like, I enjoy the fun stuff but what I crave the most is a deep emotional connection during sex. That soulmate kind of sex. I've never really had it but I know it exists because I've seen hints of it before with other people. Like I really want that expression of love during sex. I'm dating an ISFJ now but we're taking things really slowly so we haven't had sex yet. I'm really hoping I'll be able to get that with him but I'm not holding my breath. It's not really something you can teach like with the fun stuff. With the fun stuff you can be like, "Oh you're so hot, I love everything you do. Could you do that one thing you did where you touched ______ because it's my FAVORITE!" With the emotional stuff you can't be like, "Oh you're so hot, I love everything you do. Can you do this one thing where we have a deep spiritual, emotional connection and feel like soulmates?" So unfortunate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    Well..
    not my forte really
    For an ESFP, i'm not as interested as I should be.
    Well, tell me your views. I may have something to add.
    How come you're not as interested? Do you have orgasms when you do sexual stuff?
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    Quote Originally Posted by KarenParker View Post
    well I like to try everything and mostly I think I like to impress my partner. Like I want to show them that I'm the ideal woman because I'm sweet and innocent on the outside and super crazy in the bedroom. I'm definitely really open to everything and I think that's why it's so easy for me to enjoy myself. I really like my partner to enjoy me and give me lots of positive feedback. But there's like two sides of it for me. There's the fun part which is what I described above and then there's this emotional side of it. Like, I enjoy the fun stuff but what I crave the most is a deep emotional connection during sex. That soulmate kind of sex. I've never really had it but I know it exists because I've seen hints of it before with other people. Like I really want that expression of love during sex. I'm dating an ISFJ now but we're taking things really slowly so we haven't had sex yet. I'm really hoping I'll be able to get that with him but I'm not holding my breath. It's not really something you can teach like with the fun stuff. With the fun stuff you can be like, "Oh you're so hot, I love everything you do. Could you do that one thing you did where you touched ______ because it's my FAVORITE!" With the emotional stuff you can't be like, "Oh you're so hot, I love everything you do. Can you do this one thing where we have a deep spiritual, emotional connection and feel like soulmates?" So unfortunate.
    It helps if you really like the person and take it slow so I think you might be in luck

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    My last girlfriend was an ESFP. She liked to do it as often and in as many ways as possible. Any moral standpoint was simply not in her mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KarenParker View Post
    How come you're not as interested? Do you have orgasms when you do sexual stuff?
    Might of been better asking in the mature topic forum cause a lot of people (even SPs) might be uncomfortable talking about it

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    Quote Originally Posted by KarenParker View Post
    How come you're not as interested? Do you have orgasms when you do sexual stuff?
    Yea, I do. I just get bored easy/ am tired/ or am running off to do something else!! I don't know why.

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    sex is:
    - fun, enjoyable, about exploration, collaboration, teamwork,
    - openmindedness
    - NOT a sin

    Sex IS a very fun, entertaining game tangled in emotions and physical actions and sensations. The way i see it, is that i play the main role in a porn flick , if that doesn't sound awful enough...
    but whether i'm giving or recieving, i try to view myself from an outside perspective.
    - From your fun-loving ESFP.
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