Well I plan on pursuing this young lady and I think that love conquers all things. That being said I know that things will work out. I'm sorry if any other ENFJs have hurt you guys, that sucks. I too have been hurt by an ENFJ but I can say it stemmed from her insecurity (and insanity ;p) haha. Malia I disagree, because actually being an enfj.....my whole life. I can say that I have a rather tough hide.