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    Default how to get back at ESTP or ESxP?

    how to get back at ESTP?
    What if you're used (relationship wise) by one...how would you get back at them? I guess they get bored easy and stop caring after a while...so this is probably going to be a tough one...

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    Get pregnant! Works like a charm.



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    i dont think he'd care if she did if he used her

    key his car and smash the windshields

    or post pictures of his small wee wee around the neighborhood along with his number
    She talks pretty but says mean things

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mitzy View Post
    i dont think he'd care if she did if he used her

    key his car and smash the windshields

    or post pictures of his small wee wee around the neighborhood along with his number
    You don't want to be financially responsible for the revenge though. You'd rather tether him down with unwanted responsibility that he'd have to honor or be screwed for.

    Although I like the small wee-wee picture idea. Turn them into "Wanted" posters. Have you seen my penis? Call [his number]. That would be awesome.



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    Quote Originally Posted by b4b View Post
    how to get back at ESTP?
    What if you're used (relationship wise) by one...how would you get back at them? I guess they get bored easy and stop caring after a while...so this is probably going to be a tough one...
    Revenge is a bad idea. They'll get theirs down the line without you lowering yourself in an attempt to even the scales. Hold yourself to a higher standard than your erstwhile ESTP paramour. Your own moral behavior will help keep you from further disappointments as you will likely make better choices about who you associate with.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by b4b View Post
    how to get back at ESTP?
    What if you're used (relationship wise) by one...how would you get back at them? I guess they get bored easy and stop caring after a while...so this is probably going to be a tough one...
    I agree with Synarch, but if you must consider revenge, consider the following.

    ESTPs hate it when they don't get their way. Lead them on, then change your mind. Be sweet for a while and then for no reason reject the hell out of them. If you see them interacting with others and being the usual entertainer join the conversation, listen, yawn, and move on. Little shit like that will irritate them, but I don't know if you can ever get full on revenge. Dig 2 graves before setting out on such a quest, one for you, one for them. I hate to admit it but ESTPs are pretty damn good at making bad shit happen pretty quickly if they want to, so don't prod the fella' unecessarily. He can probably turn into a crafty manipulative bastard at the drop of a hat.

    Just forget about him if he is trash. Karma will take care of his sorry as if he used you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    I agree with Synarch, but if you must consider revenge, consider the following.

    ESTPs hate it when they don't get their way. Lead them on, then change your mind. Be sweet for a while and then for no reason reject the hell out of them. If you see them interacting with others and being the usual entertainer join the conversation, listen, yawn, and move on. Little shit like that will irritate them, but I don't know if you can ever get full on revenge. Dig 2 graves before setting out on such a quest, one for you, one for them. I hate to admit it but ESTPs are pretty damn good at making bad shit happen pretty quickly if they want to, so don't prod the fella' unecessarily. He can probably turn into a crafty manipulative bastard at the drop of a hat.

    Just forget about him if he is trash. Karma will take care of his sorry as if he used you...
    Catch him in lies and make them feel stupid in front of others. Make him and everyone else question his Ni or his logic. Attack there weakness, but dont tell them I told you so. Really though, revenge is not worth it in the long run, but when was this ever a perfect world

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    thanks for all the responses

    Quote Originally Posted by Halla74 View Post
    I agree with Synarch, but if you must consider revenge, consider the following.

    ESTPs hate it when they don't get their way. Lead them on, then change your mind. Be sweet for a while and then for no reason reject the hell out of them.

    thanks...I did notice that it works very well...changing the tone of my voice or interaction style from sweet to "i don't care" irritates the hell out of him...I just want to know if there are other things I can do?
    Luckily I'm not emotionally hurt, only hurt by the fact that I was stupid, didn't realize that ESTPs are master manipulators....I thought I was ahead of the game...but I wasn't....now I just want to get back at him somehow....

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    Quote Originally Posted by b4b View Post
    thanks...I did notice that it works very well...changing the tone of my voice or interaction style from sweet to "i don't care" irritates the hell out of him...I just want to know if there are other things I can do?
    Luckily I'm not emotionally hurt, only hurt by the fact that I was stupid, didn't realize that ESTPs are master manipulators....I thought I was ahead of the game...but I wasn't....now I just want to get back at him somehow....
    You can't lose if you don't play games with people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    You can't lose if you don't play games with people.

    Sorry - this was a wrong expression by me, I wasn't playing games, I just thought I knew his intentions....

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