Something I have noticed recently with me is that my Fi is completely subconcious. I have no desire to try and control it just understand it, it just drives me. If you can manage to figure out my Fi I will be pwned. Very few people have access to it. I have no control over who I give access to it either, it must be earned subconciously. 2 people can tell me the same thing, but unless I give you access to Fi it will never bother me. There are very few people who I actually care what they think. They can say something very hurtful to me and I could really care less. I have experienced this recently. Almost the exact same words from 2 different people, one I could really careless what they think and the other you wouldnt believe how deep it hurt and I dont know how to supress feelings. I think I just block them from that part of me.
I have also noticed that I hold very few people close to me and I am extremely picky on finding these people. I really try to figure out who a person is, this lets me judge where I can hold them in my life. I try to figure out the dynamics between me and that person and that person and others. When I do let you in close I will be one of the most loyal person you have ever met because you have proven yourself to be worthy of it. The other thing is that I will not push my opinions of someone onto others and try not to pursuade someone into my way of thinking. Everyone has different dynamics with different people and I do not want to disrupt it. Sometimes I may step in and say something, but its only when it is asked of me and I will try to use just perception and not judgement calls. I am a very good judge of character, but it is on my behalf. Everyone has something different to offer and everyone has something different that they want and need.