I'm sorry for the long post. I have a few questions if anyone wants to take the time to try and answer them. =D
I am an ESTP guy in a relatively new relationship [about 2 and a half weeks now] with an ESTP girl. In the past, I have consistently ended up dating girls that, as I look back, are very similar to eachother.
Typically, the girls I date would
- have depression issues [most are bipolar]
- rely very heavily on me for emotional support
- insist on seeing me every day, or very close to it
- move very slowly in general in life [from my perspective], but move very quickly in a relationship
- be about 5"3 or 5"4
- be extremely heartbroken when we broke up, call me for weeks, even months later at times
Does anyone know what type that type of girl is? Hehe.
This girl, that I just started dating, is also an ESTP. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met, or dated. This relationship is COMPLETELY different for me. I also find her extremely attractive and I'm very sure she thinks the same of me. The sex is RIDICULOUSLY good.
She has said that in the past she has trouble committing to a relationship and 'just fucks it up'. I feel similarly about my past relationships but I do not blame myself - I know those girls were not right for me. She blames herself and I believe she thinks that she may do it to me in the future. As if she will get bored and a flip will just switch off. I've had that happen to me but cannot see that happening with us and it worries me ^^
Another worry I have is that she or I will get bored with the sex. I know that I'm sexually driven, and she is too, and if either of us get bored bad things will happen. I'm not sure what I can do about this outside of being very careful to keep things fresh.
Does anyone have any tips for an ESTP / ESTP relationship?