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[SP] Impending break up (sigh)

digesthisickness

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aww. sorry to hear that your heart is hurting. my best advice is to allow yourself to grieve. as that is what it is, a type of death. and much like death, it, more often than not, comes with those same stages.

try to let yourself grow from it without putting pressure on yourself to rush it or ignore it. it has to happen, it's normal, and it's part of life, so fighting it will only delay the inevitable.

you will be okay, and you'll come out the other side smarter and stronger than before. promise. :)

good luck, hun.
 

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Can't say I'm surprised. It isn't the worst relationship, just lacking that something special. Two people with two different agendas and not enough overlap. Starting over sucks. Maybe I won't start over this time. Who knows? It's always fun until it's not.
I am not sure whether you said, but I take it that although you are not surprised this was not a mutual break up and you did not initiate it?
 

Giggly

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Sorry to hear that kendoiwan. :(

Also, it is possible to have what you want. Don't give up hope!
 

kendoiwan

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I am not sure whether you said, but I take it that although you are not surprised this was not a mutual break up and you did not initiate it?

Long story and fresh wounds :unsure:
Sorry to hear that kendoiwan. :(

Also, it is possible to have what you want. Don't give up hope!

:hug:
 
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