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Thread: How do you get an ISTP to fall for you?

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    Default How do you get an ISTP to fall for you?

    Is it even possible? Right when I feel like he's getting close he backs away...I give up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    Is it even possible? Right when I feel like he's getting close he backs away...I give up.
    That's because he saw the rope you're trying to trip him up with.
    Is not to be held accuntable for peeling errors.
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    umm, give it time? i back away too alot of the time
    start expressing interest in someone else and let jealousy take hold of him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shaula View Post
    That's because he saw the rope you're trying to trip him up with.
    yyuuup

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    Show that you're interested in him. While for an INTP that would be by engaging them in their intellectual interests, for ISTP, it'd be more about their physical interests. Like they might enjoy biking or dancing or playing vidja games, or whatever. Show interest in it, and participate every so often.

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    It makes no sense, we share a similar sense of humor we are mad attracted to each other...he spills his guts when he is drunk and then there is no follow through. My poor INFP heart can't take it but at the same time I can't stop thinking about this guy. I need a new crush.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin View Post
    Show that you're interested in him. While for an INTP that would be by engaging them in their intellectual interests, for ISTP, it'd be more about their physical interests. Like they might enjoy biking or dancing or playing vidja games, or whatever. Show interest in it, and participate every so often.

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    This is the thing, I have...or in my head I think I have showed interest, but he says that it doesn't seem like I like him (meanwhile I think the same about him) but I'm not going to show him my heart if he does nothing in return...it's like I am the man in the "relationship"...and I am the one who needs to be courted damnit!

    Thanks for all the advice though...ya'll are fast!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin View Post
    Show that you're interested in him. While for an INTP that would be by engaging them in their intellectual interests, for ISTP, it'd be more about their physical interests. Like they might enjoy biking or dancing or playing vidja games, or whatever. Show interest in it, and participate every so often.

    imo
    I'll vouch for this.
    My ISTP friend could go on forever about anything he likes to do. If he found a cute girl interested in video games. He'd be on top of her in no time. He's pretty shallow though. If you're hot that always helps.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    Is it even possible? Right when I feel like he's getting close he backs away...I give up.
    Oh my gosh. I wish I'd known... back when I was 17 and madly in love with one (for two years... or more).

    Oh well.

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    It doesn't really matter to me if you like what I'm interested in. Just don't get on my ass for doing it.
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