I dont know how I got mine. I was eating in a fast food restaurant. he sat down with his friends and I was there with mine. I got up and left then he followed us outside, picked me up and threw me over his shoulder and carried me back in and sat me down so he could hang out.
We didnt talk much and he was always a little wierded out when I made the sexual advances rather than him, so not even sure how to seduce one.
He still loves me though in his own way so once you tap into an ISTP love it seems like it is a very simplistic, childlike thing but lasts a long time and is true at least.
Dont talk too much, dont get too abstract, dont expect the neatest or most financially acute person and you'll do okay.