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    Why don't you just ask him out then? You like him, he likes you?

    Like a date, date. None of this getting drunk stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Colors View Post
    Why don't you just ask him out then? You like him, he likes you?

    Like a date, date. None of this getting drunk stuff.
    Well, I just figured if he liked me he would ask me out on one by now...

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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    Well, I just figured if he liked me he would ask me out on one by now...
    Yeah, probably better not to assume that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin View Post
    Yeah, probably better not to assume that.
    LOL, I know...

    We'll see what happens...probably nothing but we'll see. I still have hope (because I'm an idiot)

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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    LOL, I know...

    We'll see what happens...probably nothing but we'll see. I still have hope (because I'm an idiot)
    Stating how you feel about him outright would likely be much appreciated by him. ITPs kinda suck at reading the cues and subtlety, and his intuition likely isn't as strong to help him out either. It makes things so much easier for us if it's stated outright.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    Well, I just figured if he liked me he would ask me out on one by now...
    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    LOL, I know...

    We'll see what happens...probably nothing but we'll see. I still have hope (because I'm an idiot)
    Maybe he thinks if you liked him, *you* would've asked him out already. Or you'd have given him the "ASK ME OUT" secret handshake. Or the "ASK ME OUT" pigeon dance. Maybe he's given you the "ASK ME OUT" eyebrow wiggle and you didn't see it.

    Who knows? You won't unless someone takes the chance. You can't control what he does, so you'll have to take the chance yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lecky View Post
    Well, I just figured if he liked me he would ask me out on one by now...
    I would like to know where this attitude comes from. Seriously. "Well I like this guy, but I'm never going to do anything or ask him out or anything because it's the GUY'S job to do that! Why? I don't know, it just IS!"

    If people wouldn't do this then a lot more relationships would happen, and a lot more people wouldn't be moping around about how they are single. I can't believe how many females I know with this attitude that ALWAYS go on and on about how they can never get a boyfriend, but then they never make any initiative to make any move on them, since it's expected for the guy to do it. Gender roles are absolute bullshit.

    Maybe if you asked HIM on a date then you will get something started. What's stopping you? It will be very clear that you care about him if you ask him on a date or something!

    I'm not pegging that stereotype on you, since it's a bit extreme. But you get the picture, I'm sure you understand what point I'm trying to make.
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    If you like us, I'll almost guarantee that we either know, or have a very strong suspicion about it. "Traps", even the best laid ones, are pretty obvious to us. However, the good news is....stop worrying. We don't act quickly. It takes a little while for us to get everything all figured out mentally, and such before being willing to make a move. If he's confessed those feelings when drunk, the feelings are most likely real, it could just take a while for him to be willing to express them. How long, I have no idea.

    Sleeping with him, is most likely not going to influence things one way or the other as far as his feelings go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    I would like to know where this attitude comes from. Seriously. "Well I like this guy, but I'm never going to do anything or ask him out or anything because it's the GUY'S job to do that! Why? I don't know, it just IS!"

    Well obviously someone hasn't read "He's Just Not That Into You"

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    Oh, so a book, written by ONE person dictates this? Awesome. I know you're just trying to be funny, but I'm going to say this anyway.

    I don't think you see this as genuine anger on my part. I hate it when I see people do this. I think it's pretty stupid, and it's pointless. I've lost perfect opportunities because of this. I will make an effort to get to know someone, and they show no visible interest and don't ever ask me on a date or make any moves. Then later on I find out from them that they actually liked me and hoped I would make a move. WTF is this?!

    Do yourself a favor and make a move on him. You like him. What's the issue?
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