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    I wouldn't call myself a hater, but I will point out flaws in ESFPs because that's what 'hate' threads are about. Not that I find this the same about all ESFP types (obvs) .

    But there is this one ESFP friend I have, he keeps on doing this thing where he doesn't understand the 'big picture' of things and drives out people from his life doing the same menial little 'quirks' which just makes situations and people feel superficiality. He gives in to 'trends' even though he knows better, like he hashtags his facebook posts, even though they make no sense for facebook. And I'm pretty sure he knows how intellectually blunt that is, but he does it anyway. Almost as if he is working on the negative reactions of other people (Is that an Se-dominant thing, btw? I mean I hear Se-dominants usually make bullies for that reason)

    He reflects back on all this when he is in a immediate quiet zone, and asks me why people keep ditching him or acting weird around him, and then when I tell him that he may be just driving them away with his annoying 'in the moment' type gestures, he labels me as someone who 'thinks too much'.

    The funny thing is he is in a relationship with an ESFP female type, who has the same flaws as he does and they keep on having emotional outbursts about each other being 'ever fleeting' and 'maybe seeing other people'. These flaws that I can see in both of them. It took my friend until a couple of days ago to realize that he may be yelling at her for the exact same reasons, she is yelling at him for.

    But even with all those feelings, he is currently seeing someone... and I am not.
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    This was really funny experience for me. "what idiot new person created this stupid thread?"

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    These hater threads should be banned so dumb...

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    Quote Originally Posted by jixmixfix View Post
    These hater threads should be banned so dumb...
    Yea, everyone who ever started a hater thread should be permabanned.
    06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by jixmixfix View Post
    These hater threads should be banned so dumb...
    That's it, I'm making an ISTP hate thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Standuble View Post
    That's it, I'm making an ISTP hate thread.
    I`m pretty sure there`s already tons and they usually start with why doesn`t my istp love me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jixmixfix View Post
    I`m pretty sure there`s already tons and they usually start with why doesn`t my istp love me.
    You're right, there's already an official ISTP hate thread. My bad.

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    i never met an esfj but i would like to be apart of the hate. i believe they trade sex for higher social status
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    Quote Originally Posted by Standuble View Post
    I don't mind them but what always bugs me about them (which is my failing) is the seeming shallowness. I cannot reconcile with the seeming reality of SFP that there is truly little or nothing beyond the surface. I'm used to a situation where a person is like an onion with many layers echoing down from beyond the surface. Yet my experiences with these types suggests there is nothing beyond and nothing more to them than what is presented. There is seemingly no hidden depth; a truly disappointing case of what you see is what you get. If I am wrong then I understand. Because of this however I find myself wishing to dismiss SFP types as a waste of time as the world they live in does not appeal to me in the slightest and there are no unseen factors, secrets or unseen potential to keep me intrigued and interested.
    Well, this is the age old dilemma right here, isn't it? One sees the forest and not the trees, and the other sees the trees but not the forest.

    You look at SFP and see shallowness, and desire something unseen and secret. I say that you're missing what's right in front of you, and pining for something that doesn't need to be. There is so much amazing to see, hear, taste, smell, and touch in this mighty world we've been given. You don't need to go searching for hidden secrets, when there's so much potential already there that you are ignoring.

    Man, there's been so many books/movies made with this theme!

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    Yea, everyone who ever started a hater thread should be permabanned.
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    The only complaint that stands out to me right now (and it's fairly innocent) is that some have a tendency to only raise their voices if they argue and disagree. You can't depend on a well reasoned argument. It just gets louder and louder. As kids, they're the ones that shout "UH UH!!! No way!" and it sort of carries on into adulthood. edit: If I said this already, my bad. Haven't been on the site in awhile.

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