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    Quote Originally Posted by maliafee View Post
    Yes! I'll never do that ever now... what else would work? Saying thanks but no because "you know me"? Now I'm curious...

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    Yea, that would be okay.
    I might tease the poor INFJ for that answer.
    like. "yea, I do know you, and I know you need to come out for some beers with me and have some fun!"

    but ultimately, I wouldn't have a problem with that answer and let them stay home.

    I think the thing to keep in mind is, we might keep pushing you to come, but in the end, we aren't going to be mad if you don't. We just want to be around you, and also make you feel welcome with us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    Yea, that would be okay.
    I might tease the poor INFJ for that answer.
    like. "yea, I do know you, and I know you need to come out for some beers with me and have some fun!"

    but ultimately, I wouldn't have a problem with that answer and let them stay home.

    I think the thing to keep in mind is, we might keep pushing you to come, but in the end, we aren't going to be mad if you don't. We just want to be around you, and also make you feel welcome with us.
    Well, it also probably wouldn't kill the INFJ to go out with the ESFP once in a while for drinks. Not because they're introverted, but, from my point of view it would be a way of making sure neither side was sacrificing too much for the other person--a way of keeping things even, if you will.
    "I took the one less traveled by,
    And that has made all the difference."

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    I had that problem with a friend and it got to a point that I felt like I was being nagged, so the next time she started up with "You never go anywhere! You should come out with me!" I snapped, "I've BEEN out!!"

    She thought that was the funniest thing she'd ever heard.

    You have to just suck it up and go out sometimes. You might like it after you get there. It's possible.

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