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    I am Sofa King!!! kendoiwan's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    I can be romantic. Romance is after all something fun to do is it not.

    All the planning for a high. I quite like it.
    Ditto. Easily one of THE most entertaining things I can think of...

    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    i've been accused of being fickle.
    But I don't think i've told someone I've loved them and didn't really mean it. I can like lots of people at once I guess, but the "love" title is a whole different thing. Actually, once I fall in love, it is very hard for me to move on. And once I move on, I like to try to keep in touch with my past loves. They never go for that, though.

    And I don't know how I would define love for me as an SP. There are certain traits that I look for, but it is what it is, like someone else said.
    Agreed, I don't throw the L word around lightly... and I can like plenty of people at once, hopefully all in the same room
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    It's kinda too personal for me to write about romantic love here, but no, I don't fall in and out of love quickly.
    And no, for me it's not just about having affection for certain traits.

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    So, if an ISTP says he loves me, then it's "on"?

    As to the "flakiness", my bff Shorty (an ESFP), is *still* in love with her middle school sweetheart, and he's been dead for a few years (tragic ending). It's really hard on her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    So, if an ISTP says he loves me, then it's "on"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    So, if an ISTP says he loves me, then it's "on"?

    As to the "flakiness", my bff Shorty (an ESFP), is *still* in love with her middle school sweetheart, and he's been dead for a few years (tragic ending). It's really hard on her.
    aww ... thats too sad.

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    i think its because most sp's are pretty open minded to new ideas. every thought is a possibility.

    Personally, i get caught up in moments easily. and later i tell myself that i really am in love. which is bull crap. now i am in a sturdy relationship and this dosent feel like any of my past sweethearts so maybe this is love? maybe not. only time can tell.

    eh. doubt that helped anyone, but it made me feel better.
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    My "likes" can (although generally don't), change quickly and doesn't necessarily mean much, except that I have some attraction to someone at that moment in time.

    "Love" on the other hand, is not something that does that, and isn't something I throw around lightly. If I tell someone I love them, I do mean it and it isn't something that changes quickly. Other than that, I can't really put my finger on what specifically causes me to "fall in love", except that it isn't one thing. I can't say that there's one trait or thing someone's done or whatever, it's a long buildup of many of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeffster View Post
    Michael Jackson is a much better representation for us. He's not odd or quirky at all.
    Neither is Ozzy Osbourne.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    Neither is Ozzy Osbourne.
    or britney spears

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    Quote Originally Posted by kendoiwan View Post
    Oh dear...

    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    aww ... thats too sad.
    Yes, it's very very sad. She loved him a lot. I've never seen her act that way about any guy. She was talking about it with my sister a few days ago and it still clearly pains her.
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