If it weren't for this crappy law, we'd beat the crap out of the 'unhealthy' ESTPs - or, possibly finish them... all the time.
... Reiterated from what someone said earlier, a lot of ESTPs are not particularly talented, though they've somehow developed ways of getting round to genuinely capable people's heads.
One must be aware that an (unhealthy) ESTP may have issues in the head, so that's partly why they're difficult to deal with. They might even centre their existence on other people's lives/problems and make it their own... just for the sake of living on - another reason why they're hard to beat. In this case, they may have no priority over their sense with reality, and require somebody else to 'do' something about them. Pretty sad, to be honest. Only problem is, most people are way too timid (ESTPs included) to conform to such an action... given our laws, too.
... Personally, the best advise I could give is - let the moment with an 'unhealthy' ESTP pass, and soon you'll go about normally. Be grateful you never had to be like that, too.