personally, i hear about the troubles of istps, but i don't give a crap about istp women to be honest. all they gotta do is spread their legs and get some action. they probably get 2x action than istp men. i feel no sympathy nor pity towards them, infact i actually enjoy ridiculing them and making them feel small for that fact.
i like how istp women on the internet proclaim themselves to be self-suffering sacrifices, when its more true for men than themselves. trust me on this, i speak the truth.
Every ISTP in my family also has an issue with keeping in touch. The ones in my family don't need to establish contact as frequently as most Es do and that has gotten the Es in my family a little frustrated. Personally, I don't mind doing most of the calling in order to keep in touch and I try not to guilt them into showing greater initiative in that respect.
Just so you know, some might brand you a poor communicator.