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    Default ISTJs: What qualities do you look for?

    You[the ISTJ], what do you look for when you are searching or analyzing someone as a potential relationship partner? Values? Morals? Looks? etc.

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    I don't know. It's just too broad a question.

    The questions on this forum just keep getting harder and harder.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tenINsFJ View Post
    Values? Morals? Looks? etc.
    All of the above.

    I want someone who values faithfulness, loyalty and honesty as much as I do. I don't need them to fall in line completely with all my views on everything; I'm a fairly open minded ISTJ. As long as they respect my stances and opinions and share the same basic values as me that are necessary for a good and healthy relationship then I'm pretty open with the rest (not saying there won't ever be debate though ). I like compassionate and warm/sincere women, optimistic and spirited (but not in an "I'm going to suffocate you with my spiritedness !!!" way).

    A level of physical attraction is important to me. There are a ton of cool people out there that I could be compatible with, probably, but being physically attracted to them is an important element for me in a intimate/romantic relationship.

    Ambition is another draw. Doesn't need to fall in line with mine necessarily, but it's always cute when a person is driven and compelled towards something - a hobby/ies, a study/ies, something like that.

    Sense of humor that fits with mine. I don't laugh at a lot of conventional humor, so it's nice when you're with someone that "gets you".

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    I should have mentioned, I prefer a woman who is not crushed or in multiple pieces as well. Ship her first-class this time, on my dime. *Flips you a dime. Winks suavely.*

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    Ambition, strong convictions, observational intelligence, wants a family

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    I don't like talking about this stuff.
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    Bella, you're a lover and you know it. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    I don't like talking about this stuff.
    Your posts always make me smile or laugh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cimarron View Post
    I don't know. It's just too broad a question.

    The questions on this forum just keep getting harder and harder.
    I agree. It seems as ISTJs we're constantly barraged by emotionally opinionated questions, lol. I don't mind, but I am too tired to post my thoughts on what I look for tonight. Tomorrow perhaps.
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