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    Senior Member Bella's Avatar
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    After reading this, I do not ever want to be with an ISTJ.
    Waiting....? For what? Better days?
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    Alright, well we talked about exactly what I posted about earlier today and came to the conclusion that we're too different to be able to meet each other's needs comfortably, even though we want to be together. So we called it off. I am, in part, relieved and saddened.

    Either way, I feel that this experience is extremely valuable.


    Thanks everyone for your suggestions and advice, I really appreciate it all.
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    Ah, pooh....
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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkIceTD View Post
    Yeah, we talk almost everyday. I don't get to see him often, though. He is an excellent phone conversationalist though. I don't even like talking on phones much, I like face to face so I can read body languange...but I can talk to him for hours.
    That is wonderful news. Hang in there. Keep chipping away at the future.
    All of my "gains" have come very slowly with time, but they were very
    enjoyable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArbiterDewey View Post
    I don't know if I can give that much of myself that much of the time. It begins to hurt and feel as though I'm changing just to allow her to feel good, while I'm left feeling like hammered dog shit.
    Heh, heh, I have felt like that with ENFJs who were not also BDP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misty_Mountain_Rose View Post
    Edit: You know, I say this with such confidence because its what I've decided to do with my ISTJ dilemma... but I'm terrified that I'll never hear from him again *sigh*
    Yeah, I thought looong and hard about the 'if you love something, let it go..." thing. But I too feel that even if he does want me he'll be like I guess it wasnt meant to be and I'll never hear from him again. ISTJs...you guys make dating so freaking hard.

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    Sorry to hear about you girlfriend Arbiter...

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    Quick question to the ISTJs, in my situation, would you suggest waiting and staying constant in his life would be a good idea. Or backing off like the INTJs suggest and letting him come to me?

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    I don't believe girls should run after boys, EVER!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    I don't believe girls should run after boys, EVER!
    I disagree. Pursue him and wait if you want to. If not, don't. I can't speak for the guy, he may have a lot more on his plate than I can imagine.
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