Alright, well we talked about exactly what I posted about earlier today and came to the conclusion that we're too different to be able to meet each other's needs comfortably, even though we want to be together. So we called it off. I am, in part, relieved and saddened.
Either way, I feel that this experience is extremely valuable.
Thanks everyone for your suggestions and advice, I really appreciate it all.
Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.
--Isaac Asimov, Salvor Hardin in "Foundation"
Nothing is worse than active ignorance.
--Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Never let your sense of morals get in the way of doing what's right.
Yeah, we talk almost everyday. I don't get to see him often, though. He is an excellent phone conversationalist though. I don't even like talking on phones much, I like face to face so I can read body languange...but I can talk to him for hours.
That is wonderful news. Hang in there. Keep chipping away at the future.
All of my "gains" have come very slowly with time, but they were very
Edit: You know, I say this with such confidence because its what I've decided to do with my ISTJ dilemma... but I'm terrified that I'll never hear from him again *sigh*
Yeah, I thought looong and hard about the 'if you love something, let it go..." thing. But I too feel that even if he does want me he'll be like I guess it wasnt meant to be and I'll never hear from him again. ISTJs...you guys make dating so freaking hard.