LOL!! Sooooo True. This is exact.example: (ISTJ to ENFP: I told you I loved you three weeks ago, why do I have to say it every night, when we talk? Don't you believe me
I do the same thing. I immediately ask what's wrong and they're like Nothing.. and I pester and pester cause I'm certain something's wrong!I personally listen for patterns, if I'm expecting someone to say something then when I don't hear it, I sense something is wrong.
They are awesome at listening.. but their verbal feedback during a 'venting session' isn't so great. I usually get a "I see... man, that sucks. I'm sorry". All i can think is "Come On! I need more than that! Get emotional Like I'm getting emotion right now! BACK ME UP!"I like it when ISTjs show affection through back rubs, or asking how Im feeling, what im thinking. I find them to be good listeners.