His explosion came during his last month of deployment, 6wks after the trip home.
About 3wks prior to going home which was the end of August.
*note, explosion came after abt 3 days after he got a card I sent and he said to me, 'I got your card...I took the kiss. '
I haven't said a word to him since he is back around.
Just sent him the email quoting his words back: 'as beautiful as ever, tongue as sharp as ever'
I some how wondered if that was encrypted because I told him I could never involve myself again even as a friend if he was minimizing the meaning/history of our relationship. And since I had said he was awfully confident burning such bridges with untested circumstances with a relationship that starts over again and again w/ESFJ and fails each time.