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    Quote Originally Posted by Showbread View Post
    It drives me crazy. Although I am probably a bit more concerned with appearing normal than all of my IN friends, I question and evaluate my opinions. I find it extremely frustrating that people assume ESFJs are all content to just adopt other people's opinions without questioning them.
    I'm not even ESFJ and it annoys me haha!

    Do you feel like you experience some prejudice or condescension from other people online when they see your listed type? Specifically INTs since they seem to be the ones that harbor the most frustration towards ESFJs.

    Oh and how do you feel about ENFPs?
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    What are your visions and ideals for world progress and the future of humanity?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CapLawyer View Post
    Do you feel it necessary to impose your beliefs on others, or why do you feel the need to so frequently impose your beliefs? That's the thing that annoys me about ESFJs. They think they are right, they think things should go their way, and they push their stuff onto other people. It would be great if you could provide some insight around that topic.
    Is this even a question? Or is it one is those trick questions like "why are you such a jerk?"
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    @chubber intjs are cool at first, but ultimately they are impossible sticklers that are never satisfied.
    @Chanaynay enfps are pretty cool, wish they were around to hang out more
    @RaptorWizard i like humanity, wish for peace, hope we can get on with all that progress we keep hearing about. Technology seems like it can give us that, but it's just a tool, and real progress must come from people.
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    How do ESFJs feel about not being liked as much as the other popular types?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chubber View Post
    How do ESFJs feel about not being liked as much as the other popular types?
    ESFJ's are heaven-sent.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haven View Post
    Is this even a question? Or is it one is those trick questions like "why are you such a jerk?"
    The first part is the real question, the second expresses my frustration.

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    ESFJs, what does Fe-dom mean to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chubber View Post
    How do ESFJs feel about not being liked as much as the other popular types?
    Which types might those be? Being liked is not as important as being valued.

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    Every human being deserves some common decency and I'm loathe to see otherwise. if that means imposing a few values, then so be it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haven View Post
    Which types might those be? Being liked is not as important as being valued.
    I was using the ESFJ Hate thread as a reference as to how much dislike there is for ESFJ. Mind you, INTJ isn't on the popular list either.

    When you say valued, do you imply, felt needed?

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