There are all these stereotypes about ESFJs being soccer moms and slaving over sewing machines, but what the hell do male ESFJs do? My theory is that the male ESFJ archetype is the secretly-effeminate jock or the smiling faithful thug. They blend into mainstream male culture perfectly, but still have that ESFJ warmth and earthiness to them.
John Cena comes to mind:
They're more likely to be seen as "normal" than ENFP males.