I have a few questions about interactions with SJ's, particularly ISFJ's, but I would be interested in hearing from all of you.
Beyond the obvious things like family and daily life, what sorts of things do SJ's like to talk about? Being an N, I find that there are many things I am interested in discussing and thinking about which really confuse, bore, or completely perplex him.
Also, for those of you who have dated or interacted with N's in meaningful relationships, what kinds of things have you done to try and understand and engage the N ways of thinking?
And, also, what are the effects on you when you do? Does it leave you drained in any way?
It seems to me right now, we spend most of our time on the S level, and I'm wondering how we can even up the balance in that regard and spend a little more time in the abstract, theoretical and imaginative planes without causing him too much hardship.
Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated.